we described in the previous chapter. Tease her and get her laughing.\r\n To go from Sexy Stranger to Sexy, Safe Stranger: You must make her feel safe and have her trust you. Establish powerful rapport. Nonverbal behavior: open body posture; lean away from her; palms facing upwards; look into her eyes as you speak and listen; assume rapport; go into the emotional state of the bond (see Rapport section above). Verbal behavior: share a secret; ask her about things that are important to her; challenge her trustworthiness   To go from Sexy Safe Stranger to Sexy Partner: deepen rapport by doing things together; change venues; use time distortion, anchoring and the take-away (see the next section); start making out\r\n Advancing the phases: The three secret romantic accelerators Now Id like to give you three brand-new techniques which I call accelerators, because they have the effect of moving the courtship forward very quickly. These are advanced techniques which we discuss and practice extensively in The Tao of Dating seminar. With some initiative and practice on your own, you should be able to grasp the